ADHD, Autism, and Neurodiversity

What is Neurodiversity? 

Neurodiversity is a term we use to describe brains that work differently than what we consider "typical" brains. It's often used when discussing Autism and ADHD, but it can also include individuals with learning disabilities, brain injuries, and other conditions where the brain doesn't function like a neurotypical brain.

Autism, ADHD, and Mental Health

For a long time, Autism and ADHD have been seen only as disabilities with a laundry list of deficits. Now that we better understand neurodiversity, we have a more positive and strength-based outlook on both conditions. While neurodivergent individuals may have traits that can be disabling, the disability often arises from societal expectations rather than an inability to function.

Late-Diagnosis and Self-Diagnosis

In recent years, more and more adults have recognized that they are neurodivergent. A common experience for these late-diagnosed individuals is having a family member (a child, sibling, or parent) diagnosed with ADHD and/or Autism. This makes sense as we now know both conditions are highly heritable, with research suggesting that they are 80-90% genetic!

It's important to note that the recent increase in late-diagnosed individuals doesn't mean that ADHD and Autism are being overdiagnosed. It simply reflects a better understanding of these conditions and a broader view of how they manifest in different people. In the past, research mainly focused on how others perceive young white males with ADHD or Autism, leaving out women and people of colour. We are only now starting to comprehend how individuals with Autism or ADHD experience the world. Often, those who have gone undiagnosed are high masking (they can appear neurotypical - but it takes work and is exhausting!).

Late diagnosis can have a significant impact on mental health. These individuals have spent a long time feeling like things are more difficult for them, often internalizing shame and guilt. Social expectations, school, and the workplace can be challenging for neurodivergent folks. Not knowing about their neurodivergence while navigating these environments can result in traumatic experiences and feeling "othered" without knowing why.

What Can Neurodiversity-Affirming Therapy Help You With? 

  • Self-acceptance and gaining a better understanding of yourself

  • Masking and unmasking 

  • Autistic burnout

  • Difficulties with executive functioning

  • Social challenges and difficulties with relationships

  • Parenting while neurodivergent

  • Parenting neurodivergent children

  • Sensory sensitivities

  • Understanding personal accommodation needs

  • And so much more!

Oh, and here's something important: You don't need a formal diagnosis to seek neurodiversity-affirming therapy.

Whether you're self-diagnosed, unsure if neurodiversity "fits," or you have a loved one who is neurodivergent, we're here to help and support you.

Contact us to learn more, or to set up an appointment with us today!

Katie Lacelle, R.P (Q)

Hello!

My name Katie Lacelle (she/her), and I am thrilled to be a part of the Water & Stone team. I am a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) and a graduate student in the Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology (MACP) program at Yorkville University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts in English Studies from Nipissing University and a degree in Early Childhood Education from Canadore College.

Everyone has unique strengths, and I aim to empower clients to tap into those strengths, explore their own stories, and embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth.

My own life experiences have profoundly shaped my desire to become a psychotherapist. I was diagnosed as neurodivergent later in life and am a parent of two neurodivergent children. This has given me a unique understanding of the neurodivergent community, especially those with ADHD and/or Autism. Therefore, I take a neurodiversity-affirming approach to therapy.

I have also experienced the difficult life transitions of divorce and blending families, giving me an understanding of the complexity of these relationships and the personal challenges that can come with these life changes. Living with chronic pain has granted me a unique perspective on resilience, coping, and the power of self-compassion.

I use an integrated approach encompassing various modalities, including person-centred, humanistic, Adlerian, strengths-based, and narrative therapy. I aim to create a warm, empathetic, and non-judgmental space where clients feel genuinely seen, heard, and validated.

I am eager to collaborate with you on your journey towards healing, resilience, and a more fulfilling life!

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